• Relationships are becoming more and more rare
  • Men and women need to be aware of several red flags that kill love
  • Experts have weighed in on what to look out for

One of the first things is a lack of attention. "Bids of invitation" is a concept that those in a relationship often make calls for attention. Bids are verbal or nonverbal, physical or intellectual, sexual or non-sexual, funny or serious says marriage counselor Saudia L. Twine, via 'Best Life'.

Love is hard!

"These are things that validate an individual and make them feel loved, cared for and supported," Twine concludes. The other is that you never fight. Well, good luck with that!

Also interesting:

Experts say couples who never disagree with each other may not be in the best relationship. "When couples say they don't fight, I always consider this a sign that the relationship is not as strong as you might think..."

Watch the video above to learn more!